Hands down, a guy's greatest sex fear is not getting any. But once we know the game is on, a whole new set of worries takes hold. Here, the nerve-wracking reasons we often break into a cold sweat before getting hot and heavy.
Getting Naked
Okay, you'll never hear us bitch about a "fat day", but hell, we have our share of insecurities. Take it from Allen, 26, who made the ego-crushing mistake of renting Troy with a date. "After two hours of Brad Pitt's thighs bursting out of a leather miniskirt, I'm thinking, How can I compete with that? I was dying to put the moves on this girl, but I was afraid she'd be disappointed with my mere mortal measurements."
Bringing Up Birth Control
We know it's a given that we have to use protection, but no man wants to initiate the jimmy chitchat. Why? Allow Ted, 27, to elaborate. "This chick and I were going at it, and it seemed pretty clear that sex was in the cards, so I asked if she had a condom", he says. "Next thing I know, she is dressed and pissed off that I assumed we were going to go all the way. I've also been in the situation where I didn't broach the subject, and the girl thought I was an asshole who didn't give a damn about safe sex. Guys can't win!" So why not do us all a favor and bring up birth control first?
Your Sex-pectations
Men don't attach a whole lot of meaning to sex. We'll hop in the sack because, well, you let us. (Don't hate the player - hate the game!) But some women view the first time as some big relationship milestone, and frankly, it scares us. Just ask Bruce, 32, "I was dating a great girl, but the second we slept together, she became a commitment nazi", he says. "She started calling me her boyfriend, talking about meeting my family... I freaked out and bailed". Moral Sex doesn't change much for guys, so don't assume it does.
Sucking in the Sack
All guys grow up idolizing Ron Jeremy and his legendary lasso. So considering our porn-star role models, imagine the pressure we feel to blow your mind in bed. "I want to be a sex god", says Ed, 28. "But in my head, I'm thinking, What if the last guy she slept with was bigger? What if I can't get it up? What if I can't get her off? The pressure is insane". Hey, you can't fault a guy for wanting to give you the best sex of your life. Just be sure to throw him a bone (as in Damn, where'd you learn that?) so he knows he's more than measuring up.
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